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Wednesday, July 6, 2016

Goodbye for now Arizona

Well Arizona it has been almost a decade, you saw me through my first year as a new believer and a new wife, you saw me through 4 pregnancies and 3 births, you saw us through our first rental and our first time home buyers, you saw us through so much it feels strange to think Arizona that you will soon be 21 + hours away. So good bye for now Arizona, you will always hold a special spot in our hearts.

It's amazing to think how much can change in 9 years! All the wonderful people we have met in Arizona, all the great friends we have made and now we are headed back to Minnesota (a different town then we grew up in) in the southwestern corner almost in South Dakota. I am very excited to see what God has next for our family and the potential for a slower paced life at least for a few years. I am also excited to be closer to family and letting the kids get to know there cousins.

I however am now too excited about the drive there, 26 foot penske truck that David will be driving with snickers (our dog) while towing behind one vehicle while I drive the other with three children. Thankfully we are going to be taking it slow and making the drive in 3 days instead of 2. I am excited for the kids to have some kind of normal again, moving and selling a house can be very stressful on them, their toys get packed away, they can't make messes in case we get a potential buyers coming that day to look at the house!

All in all though I am excited for this new adventure God is taking us on and look forward to what lays ahead.


2 days before coming to Arizona 


6 months before leaving Arizona


the munchkins the week leading up to leaving

Thursday, April 9, 2015

From two kids to three


Well the last month has been very busy with lots of changes! Around 38 weeks pregnant, I felt contractions come, I decided to time them and realized they were every 5 minutes apart! I was very excited this is it, I texted my husband David to come home from work to get to Flagstaff. Now the contractions weren't very strong, but they were consistent and started at the back and went to my abdomen, and living 30 minutes away from our birth center we decided to go up there and get checked! I get up there only to be told i'm sitting at 1 cm, not at all what I was expecting since Sophia's birth was 2 hours and Charles was 10 hours, so getting there and being a 1 having contractions for over an hour is not what I was expecting! So we stayed in Flagstaff until about 10 pm that night, the contractions didn't stop at all but continued five minutes apart, and I ended up 2 cm, but  definitely not labor, so I went home had contractions for two days straight every five minutes only to have them stop completely! The next day I had lots of energy and did all the laundry in my house! (which was a lot of loads!) Then days go by with no more contractions, I was really puzzled, and pretty embarrassed, third baby I should know what labor feels like! Well 39 weeks pregnant, contractions every 5 minutes, stronger then last time! Again text David, and think "maybe" it is it this time, but still confused since last time. I go get checked, i'm still sitting at 2 cm, and contractions get more intense through the night, and I know for sure this is it this time, I try and sleep in between contractions in case I have to give birth soon. Only to wake up around 7 and realize they stopped sometime between 5 and 6 am.  I go to the midwife, i'm sitting at a 4 cm but no more contractions! Finally realized my little one was sunny side up, so maybe that was the reason for all the weird contractions... I went home feeling so very puzzled! those contractions were as strong as my labor contractions from previous kids, again very embarrassed since my husband left his work a second time and we come home still no baby!

At this point I told David, i'm not going back until I know for sure its real labor this time! Although at this time, I am wondering how in the world will I know real labor anymore. Days go by no more contractions, and then about 40 weeks I wake up in the middle of the night with strong contractions and back pain! Since all the false labors I have had, I sleep through not very well the contractions until 7 am when they once again stop. Wow, glad I didn't go in again for the third time for no labor!! then 40 weeks 4 days I wake up and think oh my goodness I peed myself. Well if your water has never broken, and you think you peed yourself, you may want to double check that it isn't your water breaking!


So I go to the bathroom, confused since I have never had my water broken before, still not really having contractions at this point and its 12:30 am. So Once I finally brave a towel between my legs to go grab my phone I wake David up around 1 am. I call the midwife and tell her I think my water broke, she tells me I should come in, so I decide that's a good idea. Now with all these false labors, even my water breaking doesn't convince me i'm in labor. My contractions start around 1:30 and we finally get to the birthing center past 2 am. She invites us in doesn't even check me she's convinced this is it, even as I sit there having contractions i'm still confused, these contractions aren't any stronger, is this really it!? Well she finally checks me, i'm not even sure what time it is now and tells me that i'm almost complete just keep doing what i'm doing through contractions. At that point I was completely blown away! How is it these contractions feel just as strong but are finally doing something! Well i'm not going to complain, and at 4:30 am I finally get to snuggle my little Olivia Grace Anderson.


Then at 8:30 am four hours after her birth we get to head home! Well while we were at the birthing center, we were texting my mom's home phone not her cell phone. Needless to say on our way home we get a text asking where we are? We had been laughing about how this baby is never coming, so she just assumes we are out eating breakfast, and since we were on our way home we decided to surprise her and the kids! So we pull up I walk in  and David searches for mom and asks if she wants to meet her newest grand baby! Her response was classic: shut up, you didn't have the baby, you did what! So she comes out and meets Olivia and so does her big brother and sister!


Then a few days after Olivia was born my mom takes the kids to California for 5 days so Olivia and mommy got special bonding time! Now she is almost three weeks old and as I write about the end of her pregnancy, I was completely convinced she was going to be trouble even after she was born. Although, I have been very blessed with a sweet content baby who actually sleeps all night, well except to eat but I can't complain about that.  It's amazing for me to think of the rough end of pregnancy the pain we endure through labor and as soon as she's here its almost completely forgotten about! I mean I think back and I remember, but I guess in the end its all more then worth it to add another addition to our family! 

Pictures of Olivia Grace Anderson 
Born March 20th, 2015
weight: 7 lbs 14 oz
length- 21 inches





Her brother and sister love her!






Anderson Kids April 8th, 2015





Friday, January 2, 2015

New Year

2014 has come and gone, hard to believe it's already January 2015! Just a few days shy of being 30 weeks already! It's crazy to think in about ten weeks i'll have a sweet extra addition to our family! I am very excited and nervous too! Silly, I know, third child I should be a pro by now, right!? Nope, each child is different, not knowing what to expect, how my sleep will look like, what labor will go like, if i'll make it to Flagstaff birth center before my little one comes to meet us. I think the thing i'm most nervous for is the 30 minute drive and not knowing how long labor will be! 

Thankfully David works only a mile away! Also, David has started a new endeavor, which we are both very excited for! He manages his Hotel still, but also a restaurant called Kicks on route 66 in town. So we have been still attempting to figure out our new schedule, so it seems like the perfect time to add another addition while we figure it out. School has gone from morning time to afternoon time, which the kids surprisingly have adjusted to pretty well!  The verse I have been clinging to lately is Matthew 6:34-34 “So do not worry about tomorrow; for tomorrow will care for itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own.

Lot's of unknowns ahead of me, but yet I can be safe in the knowledge that God is in control of it all, and worry only about today. Am I loving my husband and kids in the mist of my growing belly, in the mist of the changes and emotions that revolve around my growing belly and baby, and am I finding time for God's word before i'm consumed by a baby who needs my attention almost all day. There are a lot of things I can work on each day instead of worrying about labor, and about sleep I haven't yet lost. 

So I try to take one day at a time, while I know I need to prepare for a baby, I also know that she is a blessing and i'm excited to see how she will differ from Sophia and Charles. Will she be silly like her brother, love music like her sister, what will be uniquely her! All these great things to look forward too! 


Thursday, October 2, 2014

7 Years

7 Amazing years already! Its funny to look back on wedding pictures now, we look at them and think WOW we look really young! Ha, I guess that shows we are finally starting to get a little old, or we are finally beginning to realize just how young we were when we got married. The Lord has definitely blessed these passed seven years, from the birth of Sophia Joy Anderson in 2009, Charles Mark Anderson in 2010, the move to Williams, AZ in 2011 and all the blessings from each day that would take a very long time to mention! 

Now another big blessing is heading our way in March 2015, Sophia won't be the only older sibling! Even the timing of our latest blessing is a very big blessing! Let me explain how: I got pregnant this summer and the first trimester ended September 1st, which means all that terrible morning sickness I got from this one ended just in time for our first year of home schooling. We got great airline tickets to go home and see Family around Thanksgiving, a time we would take off anyways for school, and meet the newest edition baby Kane in November! Then the baby's due date is Spring break! I couldn't have planned it any better if I were to pick my due date morning sickness vacation ect. God has been very good to us! 

So I will leave you with a few pictures of our wedding day and our anniversary this past week. 



Our Wedding Day September 29th, 2007








Our Anniversary September 29th, 2014

Count Your blessings by Johnson Oatman, Jr.

  1. When upon life’s billows you are tempest-tossed,
    When you are discouraged, thinking all is lost,
    Count your many blessings, name them one by one,
    And it will surprise you what the Lord hath done.
    • Refrain:
      Count your blessings, name them one by one,
      Count your blessings, see what God hath done!
      Count your blessings, name them one by one,
      *Count your many blessings, see what God hath done.
      [*And it will surprise you what the Lord hath done.]
  2. Are you ever burdened with a load of care?
    Does the cross seem heavy you are called to bear?
    Count your many blessings, every doubt will fly,
    And you will keep singing as the days go by.
  3. When you look at others with their lands and gold,
    Think that Christ has promised you His wealth untold;
    Count your many blessings—*money cannot buy [*wealth can never buy]
    Your reward in heaven, nor your home on high.
  4. So, amid the conflict whether great or small,
    Do not be discouraged, God is over all;
    Count your many blessings, angels will attend,
    Help and comfort give you to your journey’s end.



Friday, September 5, 2014

First Week of Schoool

Well I made it the first week! Thankfully the My Fathers World curriculum gives you an intro to help ease you and your kids into kindergarten. So the first two weeks are actually only four days instead of five, which is why Friday morning I am done for the week! Looking back at the first week, it went better then I expected and yet could go better. Ha, confusing I know, the first day my oldest Sophia realized she was getting "taught" (which strangely she dislikes), and ran for the door! After that first day she seemed to get excited for school. She is very smart and tries to see what she can get away with; Charles on the other hand the first day was soo excited with pint up energy, he was almost overwhelming! Total opposite kids to teach!

The days got better after that, by Wed I was extremly exhausted for some reason, I guess organizing my day between cleaning, cooking, teaching the kids plus trying to get them exercise and have fun, just takes more time and energy then I anticipated. Thankfully it was only four days this week, and Thursday went very well because I was so glad it was the last day of the week! What I would continue doing: starting class with prayer time, it helps to calm kids excitement and helps get my heart right before teaching them. I haven't quiet found a shcedule yet that fits, I know starting with prayer then going to the bible story its a great beginning, but from there I have troubles figure out what to do next. ABC's, song time, story time, calender, arts and crafts... I know having a schedule to stick to everyday may not seem like a huge deal, but having a child with special needs who loves routine makes it more important.

Sophia does better if she knows what to expect, whats next, how her day should look like. So that is where I need to change. I need to figure out what works, and stick with it. I do change things up slightly from time to time, so she doesn't get completely upset if things don't go completely according to schedule. Which works to help her be flexible, Charles on the other hand could care less what is next, or what to expect.

I found my verse though that I want to be the center of my Kindergarten year:
Colossians 3:17 And whatsoever ye do in word or deed, do all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God and the Father by him.


With all that being said I will leave you with a few pictures of our first week!











Monday, August 25, 2014

Almost time to begin school

Next week at this exact time, instead of sitting on my computer typing up a long and over due blog post; I will be starting home school with my kids for the first time! I ordered my curriculum "My Fathers World," which going over i'm pretty excited about. Last year I did a lot of pre-school stuff with them, so sitting down and doing "school" work wont seem so crazy. I am definitely a little nervous, which i'm assuming all parents are the first year they teach, and maybe even at the beginning of every year after! ( I think I will be anyways!) 

Although I read a couple wonderful books by Karen DeBeus called "Simply Home school" and "Called Home: finding Joy in letting God lead your Home school." Where one puts home schooling in perspective and why I want to home school, the other helps you to simplify homeschooling before you even beginning.

I want to be the one to teach my kids, not only their ABC's, how to use a scissor, but also about God, why we are here, what He has done for us, and how important He is. I love the idea of Home schooling, I know not every day will go as wonderfully as I imagine, but I know God will be with me every step of the way.


Matthew 6:33King James Version (KJV)

33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you.

Pictures of our home school room:





Monday, June 30, 2014

Birthday ideas!

Charles turns four next month, and my poor little boys hasn't had a birthday party yet! I know he is still young and I don't think he realized he hasn't had one, but recently we have gone to a lot of his little friends birthdays! So, now he realizes he hasn't had one! Ha, so now Charlie's favorite past time is playing "birthday party!" The other day he took a shoe box put books in it and topped it with the tissue that used to be in the shoe. Then he goes mom today is my birthday day, take a picture of me as I open my gift! So I take a picture, afterwards he goes yahoo its my birthday Thank you for the great gift! :)

I thought it was just a phase, then I overheard him tell his Grandma on the phone, are you coming to my birthday day grandma! Anytime I tell him about someone coming over or that we are going somewhere he thinks it must be because its his birthday day! So needless to say this year I am finally giving him a well deserved birthday, and I think he will be old enough to enjoy it!

Now I just need to decide the theme. At first I thought miniature golf party in the back yard, but I think I may do construction theme. Put a sandbox out back and put construction vehicles in it. I think he might enjoy that better then miniature golf, and save that for later.


Charles opening his "gift"


Charles excitedly showing me what he got in his gift.

Random pictures of Sophia and Charles

They are taking a drive in the "car" that Charles made!